My Influences
The first person I would like to share about was my high school biology teacher, Mr. C. He was young, frighteningly enthusiastic about science (imagine a young Bill Nye the Science Guy), and passionate about his faith. Every year, during the very first class, he would shut the door and share his testimony with his class. Mr. C. had been raised in an abusive and broken home; he had turned to a life of drugs; alcohol, and crime at a young age; his childhood hobbies had involved torturing live animals and beating on kids around him; he had attempted suicide twice before the age of fifteen. I won't try to share Mr. C.'s subsequent story of change and redemption, simply because I could never do it justice- suffice to say that he had eventually ended up here, in a private Christian school, teaching science and gushing to anyone who would listen about how amazing his Savior was. Needless to say, Mr. C. was not your average biology teacher.
Mr. C.'s influence on me always came at the end of his testimony, when he would explain to his students why he had chosen to willingly share his backstory with us; he wanted everyone to understand that he had 'been there,' that his own childhood had been a nightmare and that he could understand and empathize with nearly anything that any one of us might be going through. Mr. C. made it clear that he had an 'open-door policy;' anyone, at any time, could ask to speak with him about anything. He swore to listen, to pray, to not judge, and to keep everything completely private. I never took him up on his open-door policy, but many students- and a few of my friends- did, and I realized throughout high school that more kids would go and talk to Mr. C. than to any of the school guidance counselors. This realization, and my admiration for what an unusual but appreciated teacher he was, sparked a desire in me to play that role for others; I, too, wanted to be someone that people could go to when they felt lost, angry, or hurt, and when they felt as though there was no one else to go to.
The second person I would like to share about is my younger sister, Cas. Cas recently struggled with depression for several years, and she has always idolized my elder sister- who, while a wonderful person whom I love dearly, is not the type of person who should be idolized or emulated in several respects. During Cas's depression in middle and high school, I began to reach out to her in every way I could think of- I spent time with her every chance I could get, bought her things, took her fun places, talked to her all the time, and even shared my bedroom with her several times. As our friendship grew stronger, I became a confidante for Cas- instead of going to our older sister for guidance and advice, I became the go-to person whom she looked to for guidance. Our relationship today is still strong, and I always offer her the opportunity to vent or use me as a sounding board or confidante when she needs to. I love that I have become a trusted friend, not just a sister, and that I am now able to offer guidance when she needs it.
My final influence was a woman named Dottie. All throughout college, I worked in the activities department of an assisted living home. Dottie was a resident there- she was about seventy years old when I first starting working. Being part of the daily life of an assisted living home can be a very somber, grim experience- many people do not want to be there, and many are lonely and/or angry about their circumstances. Dottie was lonely, bitter, angry, and very, very sad. When I first met her, she acted viciously; after a few minutes of her yelling and name-calling, she broke down in tears and began to tell me about how difficult she was finding it to adjust to this new home that her family had left her in. I sat and let her cry, and we ended up talking for a long time. After that first interaction, Dottie began to seek me out from time to time- she would come into my office and vent, and I would just sit there and let her. After a few of our impromptu meetings- which were very commonplace, for me and for several other staff members, since many of the residents usually simply wanted for someone to listen to them speak- I realized that I loved listening to Dottie tell me about her life and her struggles. I was seeing a side of her that she kept hidden, but that she needed to be seen by someone, and I enjoyed playing that role for her. I was majoring in Psychology at the time, and realized that I was acting as an impromptu and unofficial counselor for Dottie- this turned my interests more specifically towards counseling.
Monday, February 29, 2016
My Influential People (Sila)
The first person that has
influenced my decision to seek a profession as license counselor has to be my
father, Manoonsak. For me, he is a pastor, a dad, and a friend. His listening
skill is widely known in the circle of my church community. As I was growing up,
I have seen him ministering in the pulpit as well as counseling individuals,
couples, and families. He has inspired me to help others to know more about
themselves and God, and the way they should live their lives according to the
scripture. I remember when I was a teenager; I would see many people come to my
father and asking for help. I have seen him saved many marriages from divorce
as well as brought back unity in many families.
The second person is my mother,
Sirion. She is an encourager and a supporter of my decision to become a counselor.
Although she is not as articulate as my father is, she has a very kind heart
that always available to help others in any given opportunities. Her enthusiasm
to help is inspiring me to become a helper. In the future as a counselor, I
look forward to help as many people as I can just like what I have seen in my
parent’s works. I believe that what I have seen in my parent’s life has enormously
influenced my decision to become a counselor.
The last
but definitely not least is God, He is the one who has guided me through many situations
and careers that have led me up to this point. I am standing where I am today because
of Him. I am also confident that He will guide me through school and prepare a
place for me to work in the future. Although it would be quite difficult for me
to go back home and work as a marriage and family counselor, I am trusting in
Him because, thus far, He has kept all of His promises, and I believe that he
will do the same in the future.
Sunday, February 28, 2016
Joseph Wall Influences
My first influences came from a conversation way back in the fifth grade. A girl who i do not actually remember her name, just talked about deep life stuff that had happened to her in her past home life. This was the start of me being being told by my peers that I was easy to talk with and I had a talent for just listening and asking relevant questions about whatever the topic was. This is the foundation to me thinking about helping people as a future profession. I believe that God used this situation to start a passion that has turned into a life calling of helping people talk through the stories of what has made them the people that they are today, looking back I see the hand of God laying down the ground work for my life, and, I really find that a place of trust to the future purposes that are mold my counseling life as I grow in the profession.
Second, is a Bible professor and really a temporary mentor in my life. After a girl who I was planning a marriage with ended our relationship with a messy break up, this professor asked me a question that has driven me for most of my young adult life. He asked "what are we doing, joey" outside on a road that is now a parking lot, he challenged me to why I was throwing my life away, to why I had given up, when I had so much potential to impact the world. This was the first time and, sadly the last that anyone at the institution was supportive of my pursuit of counseling degree. Those words has impacted me more than any other in my short 24 almost 25 years of life. I feel that God used this professor to wake me up to my potential and really shake my world and allow me to see my purpose in life was to help people. I honestly do know if I would have finished college or stayed at the school if it wasn't for God using this man to walk into my path and just be present and remold my belief in myself.
Third, is a man that I never actually had the pleasure of meeting. A close friend who I have had the pleasure of having deep conversations about marriage and relationships in general is getting married next month. The pastor that is doing their pre-martial counseling was told about my thoughts on marriage and those deep conversations I had with my friend, and said that I was a wise young man. This is the newest and truly one of the most valuable praise that I have gotten from a person that does pre-marriage counseling on a regular basis. As I am about 1.5 years away from my degree, I have started to get graduate school overload, this feeling was greater before November when I heard these words from my friend on what his pastor thought of my ideas. I feel that God has used this man to recharge me in a way to not lose sight of the prize of a masters degree. God has allowed me to see that this is bigger than me and is truly my purpose and that it allows me to see the impact that i will have on marriages and the family as I just continue to follow where the Lord leads me.
Second, is a Bible professor and really a temporary mentor in my life. After a girl who I was planning a marriage with ended our relationship with a messy break up, this professor asked me a question that has driven me for most of my young adult life. He asked "what are we doing, joey" outside on a road that is now a parking lot, he challenged me to why I was throwing my life away, to why I had given up, when I had so much potential to impact the world. This was the first time and, sadly the last that anyone at the institution was supportive of my pursuit of counseling degree. Those words has impacted me more than any other in my short 24 almost 25 years of life. I feel that God used this professor to wake me up to my potential and really shake my world and allow me to see my purpose in life was to help people. I honestly do know if I would have finished college or stayed at the school if it wasn't for God using this man to walk into my path and just be present and remold my belief in myself.
Third, is a man that I never actually had the pleasure of meeting. A close friend who I have had the pleasure of having deep conversations about marriage and relationships in general is getting married next month. The pastor that is doing their pre-martial counseling was told about my thoughts on marriage and those deep conversations I had with my friend, and said that I was a wise young man. This is the newest and truly one of the most valuable praise that I have gotten from a person that does pre-marriage counseling on a regular basis. As I am about 1.5 years away from my degree, I have started to get graduate school overload, this feeling was greater before November when I heard these words from my friend on what his pastor thought of my ideas. I feel that God has used this man to recharge me in a way to not lose sight of the prize of a masters degree. God has allowed me to see that this is bigger than me and is truly my purpose and that it allows me to see the impact that i will have on marriages and the family as I just continue to follow where the Lord leads me.
Saturday, February 27, 2016
The Influence of Others
As I
think of my thinking, I am thankful (yet disheartened at times) by how powerful
our minds are. When people encourage productivity with a simple phrase “ just
put your mind to it” I do not know how often we contemplate the weight of those
exact words. Our minds are powerful, sharp, critical, motivating, analytical,
and pivotal to our very core. Today, I know that I am grateful for the
interpersonal relationships and external influences on my thinking. I would
like to take a moment to write about the very individuals who have encouraged
me to pursue this CMHC degree:
First and
foremost is Tom W., my old youth pastor who is currently pursuing licensure for
counseling. About eight years ago I was in a season of struggling with
depression, suicidal ideation, and chronic physical pain. Circumstantially I
did not think that things could get worse but they did and I lost a lot of
relationships with family, close friends, and then my health depleted. My
parents required me to attend counseling with Tom since I was “scaring” them
with my unstable mental state. Tom began to point out the lack of control in
life, which I could not seem to manage or maintain. After a long list of
personal examples I felt defeated but Tom questioned who was in control of my
life. Later that night I sat and contemplated who was actually in control – to
which I heard a still voice “I AM.” The Lord graciously rescued me and began to
restore my life that night. Through further counseling sessions with Tom I
began to realize that I need to accept what I can change and relinquish my grip
from the rest of it. I learned how to sit in the “messiness” as a client and
allow my life to be shaped by a counselor.
On
another occasion I was talking with a friend, Graham R., about my passion for
international missionary work and how I just wanted to quit school in order to
help others overseas. He questioned my intentions of becoming a counselor and
going to undergrad for psychology. Although I could explain my passion for the
field of counseling and exactly why I wanted to help others find holistic
health, I simply did not want to commit to being in school. I will never forget
the words he said to me, “Jess if you want to be a counselor, the people you
counsel deserve the best.” That day Graham reestablished my commitment to
higher education for the sole purpose of becoming the best counselor I could be
and to keep future clients in mind.
About
four years ago I was going through a very broken season of life and the Lord
provided a friendship with Christie K. that would slowly refresh and restore my
perspective of Christianity. From the first time we got together, we shared our
testimonies and confessed our desperate desire for vulnerability within the
Church. We choose to open up about sin, struggles, failings, and hardships that
we are currently wrestling with. The Lord has been faithful in this friendship
to reveal a beautiful brokenness that depends on His redemption. It has shifted
my perspective on what counseling has the potential to offer – the presence of
another individual’s soul to wade through darkness and drag in Light. I
understand that there are many burdens, trials, and temptations in my own life
that I cannot go through alone. I need someone who is willing to help which is
exactly where the counseling process or
the Church should come in.
Lastly, I
have experienced the grief of losing individuals who did not receive or
persevere through counseling. I have sat with one of my mentors, Jennifer B.,
through the loss of her husband to suicide. As she pursued counseling after the
death of her husband, she was repulsed and disturbed by the “help” she
received. No one was willing to just sit with her, without judgment, as she
went through the roughest season of her life. She turned to me with numerous
questions about the purposes of counseling and faith, but I rarely opened my
mouth. In our time together all that goes through my mind is “how can I offer
anything to you?” The truth is, I only have my presence to offer her and she is
accepting that. She does not want the easy answers or lighthearted encouragement
and knows I refuse to offer that. Instead she wants to be transparent and I
want to be with her through that, in whatever way that may look like.
Our
Sovereign Healer has used each of these instances to shape my heart. Every
single one of these influences has directed me to the perfect example: the
Trinity’s presence in our desperate times of need. As I pursue a career in counseling,
I simply want to offer my presence, an environment that creates for
vulnerability, and an empathetic heart that seeks understanding.
Thursday, February 25, 2016
Why Luke Hummel is here...
What follows is a testimony of three specific people who have influenced my decision to pursue a career in counseling:
Dr. Fuhr is a professor for the Biblical Studies department at Liberty University. During my undergraduate studies I had the privilege of taking two courses (Hermeneutics and Minor Prophets) taught by him. I stopped by his office one day after class in order to pick up an assignment; this visit became a discussion about my future plans. [One insight about Luke Hummel: I am not good about making future plans.] I told him that I was considering pursuing a degree in counseling--at the time I had been accepted into the Human Services program. He strongly encouraged me to consider the Clinical Mental Health Counseling program because it would allow me to pursue a license. He then put me in contact with a man who was knowledgeable about the CMHC program, which finally convinced me that a licensure track was the better option.
I used the word “finally” because I had been resisting the idea of doing the CMHC program; frankly, I wanted the easier, cheaper route. Furthermore, and maybe of greater importance, my father had suggested that I choose a licensure track, but at the time I was very resistant to my father’s advice. My choosing the CMHC program at the advice of Dr. Fuhr and not my own father was an eye-opening and humbling moment for me, specifically giving me insight into my poor attitude towards my father.
Sam Schwenk is the pastor of my church in West Virginia. Sam is important to me because he was one of the first men to be intentional with me concerning my spiritual development. He acted as the motivator for my continuance in the program, whereas Dr. Fuhr was the catalyst for getting me into it. There was one day when Sam and I met at Chick-fil-a, and he asked me about my choice to pursue a career in counseling. I told him about some reservations that I had, attempting to be honest about my struggles with pursuing counseling. He opened my eyes, however, to the need--specifically in north central West Virginia--for more counselors who know both God and His Word. Having this need magnified for me led me to consider counseling in a rural setting, which is the main focus of my research proposal. I had not intended to stay in West Virginia, but God used that conversation to open that door for me, causing me to seriously consider my place in rural counseling.
Sheri Hummel, my mother, is the final person I will speak about. She truly wants me to succeed in life and has always seen way more potential in me than I have seen in myself. It is through the trials and suffering that she has faced in her life that my own life and character have been shaped. Concerning my career choice, when I mentioned to her that I was considering counseling, she was incredibly supportive and enthusiastic about it. She also liked my idea to study rural counseling in my research class. (I think she would be very pleased if I practiced counseling closer to home.)
These three people, Dr. Fuhr, Sam Schwenk, and my mother, were used by God in very different ways to encourage me to press on in my pursuit. Hopefully God will continue to provide more influencers in my life--He knows I need them.
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
MY INFLUENCES
I have had numerous influences in life that have influenced my career path in mental health. One thing I would like to mention is that I have experienced and lived through situations that have geared me toward the mental health field. These experiences have prepared me for the field more so than specific "individuals" did throughout my life.
The first person I would like to acknowledge is my grandmother. Unfortunately, she recently passed away in 2014, at the beginning of my time here at Liberty. Sadly,her death has been one of the hardest things for me to deal with and has shed some light on what population I would like to work with in the future. My grandmother was my second mother. She saved me literally from going into foster care after my mother died from cancer. I ended up living with her and she put me back in school where I belonged. Before my mother died I was homeschooled because she was so sick and I needed to be at home with my family. My grandmother believed in me and she saw my full potential. She was so proud of me and came to every sports event and she acknowledged every accomplishment I ever achieved. After my mother died I was broken and hurting and my grandmother put me in counseling. At first, I hated every minute of it. But down the road counseling helped me see the light of day in cloudy storm. After high school she made me apply to college and I told her that I wanted to help people. I then majored in psychology and graduated and applied for grad school. She believed in me so much that she sacrificed everything for me to go to Liberty to pursue my degree. I know she would be proud of me for getting this far. She has influenced me to work with the elderly population and adolescents. She always told me, " everyone always needs someone neutral to talk to".
The second person I want to mention is my best friend Kim. I have known her for more than 10 years and we talk to each other every day. She has been there alongside of me through all my major life events. She has seen me at my lowest moment and has done everything in her power to lift me up. God works through her to show me the way. I am beyond blessed to have her in my life. Kim has been my cheerleader since day one and she has pushed me to continue to get my degree even when I swore up and down that I wanted to quit. She knows how big a heart I have and has always told me that I am extremely empathetic. She also says that I am one of the most intelligent people she has ever met. She really tries to keep me on track with school and my career so that I don't loose sight of my goals. When my grandma passed away she was right by my side crying and holding my hand. She loves me and she believes in me and what I can do. She told me just last week that she would do what ever it takes for me to not give up and keep on trying. I can't thank God enough for putting her in my life. I know that I could call her at any time of night and she would do whatever it takes to encourage me and support me. She has imprinted herself on me for life. I began to notice that she imprinted on me when she told me that my life experiences allow me to bring more than a book knowledge to the counseling session. I am able to relate to others in special ways and I can use my experiences to guide me through the counseling process. I know that where ever I end up in life she will always be there cheering me on.
The final person I want to mention is my dad. My father is so dysfunctional it is not even funny. I love him to death but he is the main reason I want to be a therapist. I am almost positive that my dad has severe anxiety and other problems. Sadly, my father does not believe in counseling. He has told me that it is a waste of time. I have heard him say these things my entire life and with all his issues,he has neglected to seek mental assistance. I watched my father take a downward spiral into his own imagination and it has caused him to have some pretty unpleasant issues throughout his life. I was able to witness what happens to someone who does NOT seek counseling or psychiatric services. I always hoped he would get help and I know that I have the faith that God will guide him in the right direction. My fathers weakness has showed me that counseling can help and if one does not seek help, your emotions can destroy you entirely. I hope that I can one day help someone who has gotten to a bad place. I want to help people see the light and realize their importance and how the Lord works through them everyday. This is why I want to be a counselor.
The first person I would like to acknowledge is my grandmother. Unfortunately, she recently passed away in 2014, at the beginning of my time here at Liberty. Sadly,her death has been one of the hardest things for me to deal with and has shed some light on what population I would like to work with in the future. My grandmother was my second mother. She saved me literally from going into foster care after my mother died from cancer. I ended up living with her and she put me back in school where I belonged. Before my mother died I was homeschooled because she was so sick and I needed to be at home with my family. My grandmother believed in me and she saw my full potential. She was so proud of me and came to every sports event and she acknowledged every accomplishment I ever achieved. After my mother died I was broken and hurting and my grandmother put me in counseling. At first, I hated every minute of it. But down the road counseling helped me see the light of day in cloudy storm. After high school she made me apply to college and I told her that I wanted to help people. I then majored in psychology and graduated and applied for grad school. She believed in me so much that she sacrificed everything for me to go to Liberty to pursue my degree. I know she would be proud of me for getting this far. She has influenced me to work with the elderly population and adolescents. She always told me, " everyone always needs someone neutral to talk to".
The second person I want to mention is my best friend Kim. I have known her for more than 10 years and we talk to each other every day. She has been there alongside of me through all my major life events. She has seen me at my lowest moment and has done everything in her power to lift me up. God works through her to show me the way. I am beyond blessed to have her in my life. Kim has been my cheerleader since day one and she has pushed me to continue to get my degree even when I swore up and down that I wanted to quit. She knows how big a heart I have and has always told me that I am extremely empathetic. She also says that I am one of the most intelligent people she has ever met. She really tries to keep me on track with school and my career so that I don't loose sight of my goals. When my grandma passed away she was right by my side crying and holding my hand. She loves me and she believes in me and what I can do. She told me just last week that she would do what ever it takes for me to not give up and keep on trying. I can't thank God enough for putting her in my life. I know that I could call her at any time of night and she would do whatever it takes to encourage me and support me. She has imprinted herself on me for life. I began to notice that she imprinted on me when she told me that my life experiences allow me to bring more than a book knowledge to the counseling session. I am able to relate to others in special ways and I can use my experiences to guide me through the counseling process. I know that where ever I end up in life she will always be there cheering me on.
The final person I want to mention is my dad. My father is so dysfunctional it is not even funny. I love him to death but he is the main reason I want to be a therapist. I am almost positive that my dad has severe anxiety and other problems. Sadly, my father does not believe in counseling. He has told me that it is a waste of time. I have heard him say these things my entire life and with all his issues,he has neglected to seek mental assistance. I watched my father take a downward spiral into his own imagination and it has caused him to have some pretty unpleasant issues throughout his life. I was able to witness what happens to someone who does NOT seek counseling or psychiatric services. I always hoped he would get help and I know that I have the faith that God will guide him in the right direction. My fathers weakness has showed me that counseling can help and if one does not seek help, your emotions can destroy you entirely. I hope that I can one day help someone who has gotten to a bad place. I want to help people see the light and realize their importance and how the Lord works through them everyday. This is why I want to be a counselor.
My Influencers
For a long time now people have told me that I am a good listener and supporter. I've been a peacemaker and leader of conflict resolution in my family and friend groups since adolescence. Friends and strangers alike will suddenly disclose their hearts to me - it's the weirdest thing. Moments like that, a desire to express care for people in their hard places and people confirming some of my natural giftings have pointed me to consider counseling as being a viable career option. To get specific, some people that have influenced my decision the most include my parents, my friends and sophomore year Resident Assistants, Leslie and Kayla, and some of my past campers.
To begin with, I think everyone's family has some dysfunction because all family members and sinners, but my parents have compared their families (in jest) with some friends who then said "Nope, you're family is worse. Y'all take the cake for dysfunction." We are no strangers to the messiness of life, so my parents have seen counselors when needed over the years so that they could promote healing in themselves and our family. Because of that, I have both seen and experienced how good counseling can help hurting people to grow and heal.
To begin with, I think everyone's family has some dysfunction because all family members and sinners, but my parents have compared their families (in jest) with some friends who then said "Nope, you're family is worse. Y'all take the cake for dysfunction." We are no strangers to the messiness of life, so my parents have seen counselors when needed over the years so that they could promote healing in themselves and our family. Because of that, I have both seen and experienced how good counseling can help hurting people to grow and heal.
My second year of college I was on a leadership team on the dorm with some girls that I was good friends with. Leslie and Kayla were my RA's, and they were intentional to recognize and encourage my gifts. When I was pulled up from Prayer Leader to Spiritual Life Director and they practically forced me to try out to be a Resident Assistant, they would talk with me about situations and students and then laugh at how different my perspective would always be from theirs. They knew that my natural sense of empathy and spiritual gifting towards mercy would lead me to consider a person's heart beyond their actions and would sometimes even laugh saying "Oh you're such a mercy person" because I was the last one to get frustrated. All of the time they would tell me how good I would be at counseling and how natural my disposition was for it.
Last, I have been a camp counselor a few times and have had kids want to meet with me and talk through things multiple times. I've sat with students as they questioned the Lord but also as they have confessed eating disorders, shame-filled secrets and several types of abuse. Sitting with them as they have opened the doors to their pain and taken steps towards healing has been such a privilege and though each time is heartbreaking I feel that it is something that the Lord has crafted me for and led me to do.
All of these moments (and others) combined have seemed like the Lord building up my character and challenging my heart. I feel like He has placed passions and desires and skills within my and that using them as a counselor is a good way to honor Him in the ways in which He created me. My life and circumstances good and bad have built me into who I am today and helped me to know Him more. This truly feels like my calling and I am glad to serve God in it. All that I have and am are gifts of God, so I choose to worship Him with those gifts.
Monday, February 22, 2016
My influences
Naming influences for my career choice is difficult for me because I consider myself to berelatively self-taught and from books and I do not remember any mentor figures who I was ever to communicate my interest. I can list some figures who were important in making me who I am today.
My younger brothers Daniel, Nicholas, and Jonathan: my brothers were important on my journey because they helped teach me to be a leader. I imagine myself as standing between my parents and my younger brothers and working to inspire my brothers to face the demands of life. I believe they gave me a greater sense of purpose and inspired me to become more of a leader, which gave me confidence to go into counseling. I do not think I will ever be able to have God's plan for me completely figured out but the experience may be preparing me to continue to lead and inspire.
Keeping with family, I will also mention my mother. She teaches at my county's primary school and has created opportunities for me to volunteer. She also encouraged me to continue into graduate school and to pursue my individual interests. Also, I think the roles we played in our family system have also influenced me. She tended to worry and see things as broken whereas I tended to be the one that smoothed things over and encouraged. She thought of me and my brothers were especially intelligent and could accomplish something if we found interests. I believe God has blessed our family with a blessing that is meant to be shared throughout the Earth and I hope to continue the legacy.
This may be cheating a little, but I do want to give credit to Jesus and his story as an inspiration for my career path. Jesus' greatest work was to bring His beloved but imperfect and frustrating people into communion with Him through His grace. This example shows me the importance of relationships and good graces, and has encouraged me to become knowledgeable in concern to these areas. I hope to serve God by being able to reach out as Jesus did to people who did not consider themselves canidates for grace.
My younger brothers Daniel, Nicholas, and Jonathan: my brothers were important on my journey because they helped teach me to be a leader. I imagine myself as standing between my parents and my younger brothers and working to inspire my brothers to face the demands of life. I believe they gave me a greater sense of purpose and inspired me to become more of a leader, which gave me confidence to go into counseling. I do not think I will ever be able to have God's plan for me completely figured out but the experience may be preparing me to continue to lead and inspire.
Keeping with family, I will also mention my mother. She teaches at my county's primary school and has created opportunities for me to volunteer. She also encouraged me to continue into graduate school and to pursue my individual interests. Also, I think the roles we played in our family system have also influenced me. She tended to worry and see things as broken whereas I tended to be the one that smoothed things over and encouraged. She thought of me and my brothers were especially intelligent and could accomplish something if we found interests. I believe God has blessed our family with a blessing that is meant to be shared throughout the Earth and I hope to continue the legacy.
This may be cheating a little, but I do want to give credit to Jesus and his story as an inspiration for my career path. Jesus' greatest work was to bring His beloved but imperfect and frustrating people into communion with Him through His grace. This example shows me the importance of relationships and good graces, and has encouraged me to become knowledgeable in concern to these areas. I hope to serve God by being able to reach out as Jesus did to people who did not consider themselves canidates for grace.
My Inspirational Hall of Famers - Lydia H.
Ralph M. - Summer Camp Director
I was a summer camp counselor during high school. He was a big commanding figure with a booming voice who taught the prep courses during staff training. He called things as they were so if he signaled you out on something you knew it was legit. I remember multiple times hearing him affirm my counseling/relational abilities during my first summer as a newbie counselor. I didn't know I could do it. He did. His believing in me gave me the confidence to believe that maybe I had a knack in the relational/leadership field I had been unaware of thus far. It gave me confidence and inspired me to pay attention and learn and become better at relating, discerning, leading, and empathizing. Today as I prepare to become a professional counselor I am inspired to love and believe in people like I saw Ralph model for me during my time in high school. I also see how his not mincing words added to the weight of what he said. Sometimes this too will be important in the counseling office when a client needs to look at the contradiction of their life and their words in order to find a more freeing way to live.
Mary H. - My mom
While my mom rarely said to me I think you have a gift in this area of counseling, she would often ask me for relational advice and invite me to be the mediator in various family discussions or disagreements. This was like a mirror for me to be able to assess my abilities and gifting. It was the encouragement in part that led me to pursue an undergrad in psychology and currently graduate work in counseling. It was rewarding to me to mediate disputes in my family and to know that family members perceived me as a peacemaker. It was that inspiration that has made me believe if I could do that in my own family then just maybe I could be good at it professionally. Whether I work in marriage and family therapy or addictions or some other form of counseling I can look back to my mom as being someone who inspired me to pursue counseling.
Natalie G. - My cousin/friend
I didn't go right into undergrad work after finishing college. During that time I was involved in various things and I had numerous discussions with my cousin and friend Natalie. It was a confusing time in my life, but she often encouraged me to assess the gifting and desires I had and pursue work in that field. At the time she was working on her undergrad in psychology and later completed here Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. We shared very similar interests in the workings of successful relationship and her encouragement helped to push me toward my own journey into the counseling field.
I appreciate the people God has placed in my life that have been influential in helping me to assess my gifting and desires. It is one thing to think you see a certain ability in yourself. There is a whole other level of validation that takes place when others around you affirm that perspective. It gives courage that our assessment in accurate and boldness to step out and pursue our desires.
I was a summer camp counselor during high school. He was a big commanding figure with a booming voice who taught the prep courses during staff training. He called things as they were so if he signaled you out on something you knew it was legit. I remember multiple times hearing him affirm my counseling/relational abilities during my first summer as a newbie counselor. I didn't know I could do it. He did. His believing in me gave me the confidence to believe that maybe I had a knack in the relational/leadership field I had been unaware of thus far. It gave me confidence and inspired me to pay attention and learn and become better at relating, discerning, leading, and empathizing. Today as I prepare to become a professional counselor I am inspired to love and believe in people like I saw Ralph model for me during my time in high school. I also see how his not mincing words added to the weight of what he said. Sometimes this too will be important in the counseling office when a client needs to look at the contradiction of their life and their words in order to find a more freeing way to live.
Mary H. - My mom
While my mom rarely said to me I think you have a gift in this area of counseling, she would often ask me for relational advice and invite me to be the mediator in various family discussions or disagreements. This was like a mirror for me to be able to assess my abilities and gifting. It was the encouragement in part that led me to pursue an undergrad in psychology and currently graduate work in counseling. It was rewarding to me to mediate disputes in my family and to know that family members perceived me as a peacemaker. It was that inspiration that has made me believe if I could do that in my own family then just maybe I could be good at it professionally. Whether I work in marriage and family therapy or addictions or some other form of counseling I can look back to my mom as being someone who inspired me to pursue counseling.
Natalie G. - My cousin/friend
I didn't go right into undergrad work after finishing college. During that time I was involved in various things and I had numerous discussions with my cousin and friend Natalie. It was a confusing time in my life, but she often encouraged me to assess the gifting and desires I had and pursue work in that field. At the time she was working on her undergrad in psychology and later completed here Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. We shared very similar interests in the workings of successful relationship and her encouragement helped to push me toward my own journey into the counseling field.
I appreciate the people God has placed in my life that have been influential in helping me to assess my gifting and desires. It is one thing to think you see a certain ability in yourself. There is a whole other level of validation that takes place when others around you affirm that perspective. It gives courage that our assessment in accurate and boldness to step out and pursue our desires.
Thursday, February 18, 2016
Metacognition and Research
Dr. Gary Sibcy and I were invited to do a presentation in the fall that was sponsored by the Center for Teaching Excellence (CTE) on the constructs of metacognition and student success. This presentation and subsequent discussion with faculty has lead us to develop this blog- we will share some content from our presentation on how metacognition can benefit students success and invite students to engage in the process to increase their success.
John Flavell is a key player in the metacognition literature. Flavell indicated that metacogniton can be defined as follows: "Metacognition refers to one's knowledge concerning one's own cognitive processes or anything related to them, e.g., the learning-relevant properties of information or data. For example, I am engaging in metacognition if I notice that I am having more trouble learning A than B; if it strikes me that I should double check C before accepting it as fact (Flavell, 1976)."
The emerging field of research on metacognition reveals, that having knowledge concerning one's own cognitive processes is associated with a number of positive outcomes. According to Tanner's (2012) review of the literature, metacognition has been correlated with thinking skills and promoting conceptual change in younger students, improving metacognition is associated with improving young student's academic success, and lower metacognition skills are correlated with lower academic skills. So, one pathway to promoting student success is promoting metacognitive skills.
Given all of the benefits of metacognition one of the primary goals is to understand the present in light of the past and with a vision towards the future and to develop a sense of calling. If students have a sense that they are called to their work and think about their thinking in terms of calling- then the process of perseverance in difficult time becomes much more meaningful and feasible.
"If I know my purpose and use meta-cognition to evaluate what I am thinking about if my thoughts and behaviors are getting me to my purpose then I can engage in self-supervision/self-correction (Sibcy & Knight, 2015)."
Thus, if as educators we can help students increase time spent thinking about their thinking, and evaluate whether their academic thinking is in keeping with their goals and helping move them forward, then there is some evidence to believe that our students will be more successful (Tanner, 2012).
So, the purpose of this blog is to give students an opportunity to share their metacognition with respect to their purposes and to their selection of a research topic. An additional purpose is to help students develop narrative sustenance, and a high level of coherence as they discuss their autobiographical experience. The narrative sustenance may help students develop the quality of narrative that can support perseverance through times of difficulty.
We have combined and modified some questions used in various psychological assessments such as the Significant Other History (SOH;McCullough), Adult Attachment Interview (AAI; Main), and the Savickas Career Styles Interview (SCSI; Savickas).
The questions that provide a starting point include:
Name 3-6 people who have influenced your career choice/choice to select to pursue a career in clinical mental health counseling.
Describe how they influenced you OR what is the specific imprint that they left on you?
What is it specifically that this person did in your academic or career choice that influenced you?
How do you see God using these experiences to accomplish his purposes in you?
For example, Dr. Sibcy shared that one of his past professors and mentors Dr. JP Moreland left the imprint on him of the importance of pursuing knowledge for knowledge sake. This influenced the trajectory of his career and major in some profound ways. In 2009, Dr. Sibcy co-authored a book with Dr. Clinton called, "Attachments: Why You Love, Feel, and Act the Way You Do." It is clear that his desire to pursue knowledge and understand the way things work and the way people behaved has influenced his work.
What about you? Who has influenced your career choice and calling? How does this influence you in career decisions such as what topic to select for your research proposal?
Students who are able to find meaning in their experiences tend to be more successful, than those who are just seeking to fulfill requirements or "jump through hoops." For example, Dr. Sibcy had the following dialogue with a dissertation student via text message:
Dr. Sibcy was encouraging "Joe Schmo" to engage in metacognition and to think of his work as something that can make a difference rather than something that just needs to be finished. The purpose of this blog is to create a community of inquiry where metacognition, purpose, and meaning are themes.
References
Flavell, J. (1976). Metacognition and cognitive monitoring: a new area of psychological inquiry. American Psychologist, 34:906–911.
Sibcy, G. and Knight, A. (2015). Metacognition and student persistence strengthening the link. Student Success Institute. Center for Teaching Excellence. Liberty University, Lynchburg, VA.
Tanner, K.D. (2012). Reconsidering “what works.” CBE Life Sci Educ. 2011;10:329–333.
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